Hey Everyone.
You know how we seem to worry a lot about what others would think but the reality is they too worry the same.
What I mean by that is everyone is facing their own problem and insecurities that they don't really care if you have a typo in your latest Newsletter issue. Most of the time they won’t even notice. Even if they did, they don't fucking care.
Sorry for that. I’ve been itching to use it since I have been on recent binge of all Mark Manson's Stuff.
No One Cares.
Read That Again. Slowly and hammer it inside your brain.
We care a lot about what others would think of us. Which is a lot to worry about and is absolutely freaking nonsense cause again No One Really Cares.
They only would if it effects their life in some capacity.
And Perhaps We are all butterflies stuck in our own Little Hurricane.
I mean Ask yourself.
What was the last time you were offended by the someone’s nail polish wasn’t quite matching to their dress, or you found a typo in a newsletter or maybe you weren’t able to give the perfect example to explain what you just said.
Just like that no one cares about what you said to someone was a little rude or offensive or maybe didn’t reflect your ideal self and might have left a bad impression.
And For Some Reason We think we are center of the universe and everyone is watching you.
For me as an introvert I suffer from it a lot. I’d spent hours pondering about if there was a better response I could have given which didn’t led to embarrassing situations. But the reality is the situation wasn’t as embarrassing as thought it was and even if it was worrying about that would just make me feel bad about myself.
And again, don’t you worry about it if you suffer from cause maybe it would the most normal thing about you as human but just remember no one fucking cares
Have A Great Weak!
~
Abd Sid.
*waves*
Weakly Highlight.
I
As I have Already told you that I been on a Recent Binge of Mark Manson’s content. I really liked this video on how to outpace 99% of the population, and let me tell you, it's not your typical "rise and grind" manifesto. It's unique. It's real. By the end, I was nodding along because it's crystal clear that merely setting goals, becoming a gym rat before dawn, and embracing extreme discipline won't catapult you over the masses. There are hidden elements at play, secret ingredients in the success stew that we have missed.
II
On Monday I rewatched Titanic (1998). And it’s like the best Romantic movie ever. No doubt about that. Because most of the times I read Novels and that’s why I was kind of craving to know what they really felt like. You know when you are reading book you can sort of like recreate the experience in your head and feel what the character is going through_ I’m probably overthinking it. Is Titanic Worth Rewatch.
Definitely.
III
On Friday, Maaz, my younger brother who I share my room with lost some of his, money and then he asked me if I have seen it and I said make your bed you’ll find it. I wasn’t serious I only told it hoping maybe he would make his bed. (he never does!!) He ignores me and start's looking for it everywhere and after 2 hours when it was time for bed, I without another choice went on to make his bed and found the money right there insides the sheets, and I couldn’t help myself but to laugh out loud and laugh and laugh a little more.
Hey Abd Sid, This is a great post! I love the analogy of "butterflies in a hurricane" to describe how we're all caught up in our own problems. Hilarious story about your brother's lost money! Sounds like you had a fun week.
Thanks for sharing
We think quite alike! Where are you at in life? 20s? 30s?
Pretty insightful if you are < 40s :)